Thought for the Week

Timothy D. Stein, MFT, CSAT

February 20, 2017

“A real conversation always contains an invitation.  You are inviting another person to reveal herself or himself to you, to tell you who they are and what they want.” –David Whyte

Talking with someone and having a conversation are two very different things.  You can talk with someone without really letting them know you or finding out anything about them.  A conversation is an exercise in vulnerability.  By entering into a conversation, you are being vulnerable and allowing yourself and your experience to be known.  If the person you are having a conversation with allows themselves to be vulnerable and known as well, a conversation can be a profound and intimate experience.

When have I talked to others without being known?  When have I listened to others without connection?  What gifts await me if, when appropriate, I offer or accept an invitation to have a real conversation?